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Originally posted by ratbastid
There's no "ergo" connecting her physical size and the tightness of her vagina, by the way. If she can push a baby through that thing, I guarantee you'll fit.
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This isn't quite true. It's also not true that plenty of lube will solve the problem (although it is the first thing to try.) There's a couple of conditions that most people are not aware of that may be an issue here.
Most likely is vaginismus. This is an involuntary tightening of the vaginal muscles that can make penetration impossible. So a couple questions for metblack85...
Can you get any penetration at all? The hymen shouldn't cover the entrance to the vagina completely.
Does she use tampons?
Can you locate the entrance with your fingers? Get your head down there (get comfy down there, many girls like getting head better than anything else.) Can you see anything?
Check some online pics to see what you can expect to see. Try
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/hymen.htm The web is your friend.
Also, like a previous poster said some women have hymens that are just too tough to be broken. If it really isn't working she should go to a doctor.