its probably not her hymen (not sure either, but I will throw that spelling in to the mix...), more likely the fact she is nervous, consciously or unconsciously, and as said above, not wet enough.
"so should i just keep trying until it breaks?" - if you are having conversations that are anywhere near the tone of that remark, she is probably scared to death., and therefore tense.
Just both try to relax, enjoy, dont be so caught up in the idea of "penetration" that it becomes a big issue. Your tryin to make love here man, not have sex! There is a big difference, remember that!
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