Women are attracted to men who are attractive, outgoing, fun, and interesting. Are these not words you would use to describe your boyfriends past and present cosmogirl?
Some guys are born naturally outgoing, fun, attractive, and interesting. Some are not, and need to work on it. Lots of guys can't get a date to save their lives. So instead of being totally lonley for the rest of their lives, they take it upon themselves to become some (or all) of the things that women want which are detailed in this thread.
These tips help guys become better and more happy people. And yeah, to get ahead in life you gotta squash some egos. You can't tell me you've never turned down a guy because he didn't meet your standards. That hurts you know. You yourself have probably hurt alot more people than you know. And guys aren't allowed to return the favor?
Last week you turned down all around nerd but good guy Tim. Tim's a real nice guy. But hes got no fashion sense, and he can't hold a conversation to save his life. NEXT.
But what if Tim had followed some of the tips on this site and made himself into a more attractive and interesting person? You'd go out with him in a second, and you'd be able to see the genuine niceness that he had inside all along.
He didn't change on the inside, but he changed his exterior and demeanor, and wow! Its a whole new ballgame for Tim.
What he did was change the cover of the book, not the contents. Thats what these tips are for. They don't tell you to change yourself, or the person you are. They tell you how to be more attractive to the opposite sex so you might actually get a chance to show them who you are. Sure, you fib and you fudge a bit, but no one can say that he or she has never lied or changed their opinion to look cool or to get acknoledged.
Why the king of pimps, plan9 himself, has stopped posting here. His last post was about how he had met a nice girl and it was getting serious. But how could a nice girl fall for such a dishonest fella? Well, its because maybe under all his ingenuity in getting the opposite sex to notice him (honest or not) hes a genuinely nice guy who just knows how to flip a ladies switches.
Despite what you may or may not belive cosmogirl, dating is a game. The object is to get noticed. These tips help guys get noticed. And as the old saying goes "All is fair in love and war", and both sides take their share of heartbreak.
Well that was going to be my conclusion, but another thought just occured to me. Both sides get rejected in the dating equation, but at different times. If a guy is a geek, he gets rejected by the girl right off the bat. Poor guy. If the guy is a player (like perhaps what this thread could technically teach you to be), he rejects the girl after the fact. Poor girl.
But if dating was like you wanted it to be, the losers would stay locked up in the basements while you got to pick and choose from all the eligible guys, who would then stick with you as long as you wanted them to. You would never get hurt (which is obviously a very appealing thought), but thats just not fair. If a girl can pick and choose from the guys, then a guy should be able to play a girl. The hurt can go both ways.
You know, unless you use these tips well and become an appealing person with a good personality with the ability to get girls, but to also be a genuine and warm person.
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