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" Yeah, it is sad. The fact that thousands if not millions of guys are led on by dishonest women, and have have to resort to tactics like these to get girls. The fact that guides and sites like these are becoming hugely popular"
I agree...it is dissapointing that guys are led on by dishonest women, but are guys always honest about their intentions? do you tell every girl that you are after that you only want sex? I doubt you are that honest with them. Oh and what about the advice for someone in your group to hit on the "fat ugly girl" to distract her while someone else goes for the real target. Is this honest? are guys really always honest about their intentions?....no!
"No different than women, except guys will always admit to wanting sex."
Maybe it's different for you, but for me sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship...remember the thing about me being a virgin?
"And women make us sick and dissapointed, that they haven't the faintest bit of honesty when it comes to dating. They want to lie about what they want out of a partner, and then expect us not to get mad when we find out?"
I'm sure you have come in to contact with girls like that, and yes there are girls out there who are like that...but not all of us are, and that is what you should understand, we are not all manipulative bitches....i'm just trying to restore a little faith in women kind here...
"Good for you. They probably became good friends after you started dating."
not true....the first was a best friend of mine i met through another friend and it grew into something else....the second was friends with me while i was with the first guy and it later evolved into something more.
"This is why so many guys are having a hard time. Because girls continually say this, even though evidence points to this being bullshit. You aren't helping guys by saying this, you are making it worse."
The guy i am with now is the guy i turned to after my breakup with the first guy, i talked to him about all my problems and early on only thought of him as a friend (my understanding of what is known to you guys as a cuddle bitch) but as i realized how amazing he had been to me and how close we had gotten, i began to feel more for him and now we are together......i have to object to the notion that this happening is bulshit because it happened to me...
"But respect does not equal sexual attraction. Respect does not equal dating material. See the point?"
I'm attracted to some male friends, and read the above explanation...
"Bullshit. Guys will date girls who have had a hundred sexual partners, and even get married to them. Why wouldn't women do the same? Check the "how many notches are on your stick" thread. There are married guys there that have had dozens of partners. "
okay i'll give you this one, people change and partners are willing to forgive and forget...but this is more common for men....men usually don't care about how many sexual partners their girls have had nor do they want to know details...girls that i have talked to are not like this, we seem to want to know everything even though it might hurt us...and while we can still realize that you might have changed, we are still less trusting in general (i don't speak for every girl, but that is what i have noticed)
"No wonder I hate 95% of women. You perpetuate lies to men ( male friends are sexually attractive? Please. ), and then cry like a baby when men wisen up. "
I'm not lying...are you saying no attractive men have female friends? i don't see that being possible...
"Yes. We are weak because we don't have to be attached to someone. We are weak because we can exist without a significant other. We are weak because we have our own lives, and our own identities, and don't need a significant other for such."
That is a good thing, i wasn't insulting your ability to be your own person but why must you treat women like crap along the way? Why do you think all women are is sex objects? What is wrong with having a special connection with one girl? Are you saying every happily married person is weak because another person is a source of happiness? Is it really that wrong to share your life with someone? i don't think people who do that are weak at all...
"That is the point, we are focusing on ourselves. This is an egocentric way to do things, but it is necessary to get women. Expecting people not to be egocentric is stupid."
oh wait....now you need women?...i thought you just said you were fine living your own life? now i'm getting confused....hmm and i thought guys were always honest?
"A broken heart isn't the worst thing in the world. It is a condition caused by one person ... yourself."
no i disagree there too....i think the women you lure into loving you, screw her..and then leave will have her heart broken by you...
"I hope that isn't a comment about physical attributes."
no not at all....i can't see you remember? i mean you sound like jerks....i'm sorry you have no faith in the female gender but we are not all like this...that is what i was trying to say. And also you guys are not all innocent victims in this, and girls are not the ones who should be blamed for making you so bitter..it works both ways
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