wow...it makes me sad that one of the most popular threads here is all about how to help guys get laid with zero respect for the women. I used to think that the average guy was after more then just sex, apparantly i'm wrong. Seriously most of you guys make me sick and as a women i'm horribly offended and dissapointed. I know you'll probably say that i am a hipocrite or that i'm "not aware" that i fall for these tricks on a daily basis....bullshit. All my boyfriends have been good friends of mine, i've been in two long term relationships, and hardly been single (except for a few months) since i was 16. I'm a virgin(by choice, i've had oppertunities...and no i'm not a prude, i keep my guys happy beleive me)....and yet my guys have stayed, and loved me for who i was....and no i've never been cheated on. For you guys who are the token "Cuddle Bitch" or "Friend Guy" don't think that you have no hope or that you are weak and will never get a girl. In fact, the reason girls are friends with you is because they respect you a lot more then the average guy. Maybe you need to think about what kind of girl you want before you take this advice. If all you want is sex....go ahead, screw your brains out, manipulate women, but if you ever, EVER want more then that, you sure as hell will not get it from a girl with any self respect who knows about your past. No wonder i hate 90% of men....well boys is more accurate. I figured someone needed to smack some sence into you guys. You sound like you are 12! Yes it is important to take care of your appearance, there are some useful tips to make your self more attractive and by all means i'm not disagreing with that. And i agree that you should have confidence. I only disagree when you start playing games with a girls heart, and manipulating them, and condem being with one girl or saying that thinking one girl is more special is stupid and "weak"...i think you guys are the ones who are weak.....and for people who condem obsessing over women you seem to spend a whole lot of time thinking about how to get one...or many to be more accurate. Maybe you should just live your life and see what happens, focus on you. I really hope that you guys meet someone who will change how you feel, and maybe MAYBE someday you'll grow up and realize what it's actually about....i really hope that is soon, for the girls sakes who are stupid enough to give their hearts to you.....and if you think i'm being a cold feminist...maybe you need to think about how you look....and it's not good.
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