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Originally posted by clockworkgreen
Believe me, this isn't a normal occurance though I say it happens now about once a year where we have it out for a day or two. I don't think it's normal or healthy, but we're two very opinionated people who like to be in control, and if there's ever a situation where we feel like that's being questioned or somehow we feel violated, these things happen.
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On the contrary, my friend. It's
extremely normal and healthy. You're two individuals who are grappling with what it takes to live as a "we". My answer above would have been a little different if I'd known the timeframe of your relationship.
You're learning to live together. That's going to require some conflict. It doesn't mean ANYTHING about your relationship or your committment to each other. In fact, that the next morning you were both able to apologize says a hell of a lot more about you.