My appointment is later today. (It is 1:14 in the morning and I can't sleep due to all this stress.) He is still pressuring me; but I talked with the girls' counselor again today and she said I'm doing the right thing.
As for contacting social services myself, we live 540 miles apart -- so I never thought of it. Not a bad idea. I'll see what the lawyer has to say.
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The lawyer seems to feel we have a firm case. He will go after changing visitation to make it supervised when foster children are present or unsupervised when they are gone and we have proof of such. Only down fall, the retainer is much more than I can afford. Mom is helping out -- good old mom! But I still need $1,000 more. My kids safety is worth it, so I'll figure it out.
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