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first, i just wanted to say that just because your friends may not want to talk about the situation directly, that doesn't mean they aren't your friends or don't want to help. some people just aren't good with advice or listening and that's okay. i'm sure if you instead asked them to help you keep your mind off her or help you find a rebound, they'd be right there at your side.
also, like many have said before... it will take time to get over, it always does with everyone and every relationship... and the best way to make that time seem short is to keep your mind occupied. don't take things one day at a time because that'll make things go very slowly... instead, loosely plan out your entire week at once. schedule a few things you can look forward to later in the week and plan to hang out with someone new each day. also, you might want to think about taking up a new hobby or sport that you can focus on... that definately helps if you can become passionate about improving.
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