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I will be making an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow. Unfortunately, he won't allow me to access social services (I asked.) But he is demanding that the girls see him with the boys in the house. The girls' counselor says there is no way they should go. I've given him five options, including me bringing the girls to him and him coming her to stay with them (while Lebell and I honeymoon -- so we won't be around.)
FYI - I know that being a foster child doesn't make you a bad person. However, it does mean you may have some garbage to deal with that isn't your fault. I love children -- I'm a teacher. I simply feel that I must put the safety and innocence of my daughters first.
Thanks everyone for your input -- I am taking it to heart! (And agree totally about the motivation for him taking in Foster children -- but, unfortunately, that is not my problem.)
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