Twas realistic on my part. I know I am a very difficult person.
I'd be willing to bet more marriages wouldn't end in divorce if people just maintained seperate living spaces. I want to be with someone and spend time with them because I WANT to, not because I HAVE to because I don't have another place to go. People get on each other's nerves. It's human nature, if you don't have a seperate place to go, then you are kinda forced to stay and argue (though I enjoy a good argument, I don't like arguing out of frustration)
Defensive? I don't think so. Cynical? Absolutely.
I'm kinda surprised at the number of people who want to be coupled -- especially the number of fellas --surprises me.
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