maleficent

Nope. I love being single.

I've been engaged twice, first one ended when I declined to take his last name (he had a lousy last name) Second one ended when I seriously suggested that we both keep our own apartments. I like being by myself. I am comfortable being with me.

It's nice being with someone. But sometimes it's too much work. I want to sit around on a sunday morning in my grungy sweats drink coffee and do the ny times crossword puzzle, I don't want to talk to anyone.

I've used this expression before, but it's fitting here, you can't share a life with someone else, until you have had a life by yourself. Go out, find some stuff that you enjoy doing for you, that you have fun with. Appreciate the time that you spend with yourself, and don't always look for someone else to fill that time.

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