dtappeiner

Thanks for all of the great replies. I am just frustrated. Not sure about the squirting thing, but who knows. When we were younger, she was much less conservative and we used toys and had all kinds of un, but I have never really seen her orgasm. I have been with quite a few women and have not had this problem before...they have all had plenty of orgasms, whether by oral or intercourse and, either my wife has orgasms and they just aren't as loud and intense as the others, or she just hasn't had on at all. I am most worried that this will cause a division between us because I feel inadequate and sometimes I feel like I want to go outside the marriage and find a woman that I can please...I know that is weak but I feel very inadequate lately! It's not for lack of effort. I try to stimulate her with my fingers or with my tongue for as long as I can and I would stay down on her for hours if she would let me...just to get her off...but she is always wanting me to stop and enter her....don't know what to do. I have an average size penis (6"), good girth...I am definitely attractive and have no problem attracting women, so I don't think that she is turned off by me....I know the passion can fade over time as it has for both of us, but there must be something I can do. It's hard to talk to her because she always gets pissed if I bring up issues about sex and she says everything is fine...but can it really be fine if she never cumms? Part of me has thought about finding a guy locally to see if he could seduce her and get her off....but I am also scared that she would then have no reason to come back to me!! There must be some women out here that have had similar problems. Looking forward to any further suggestions.