Given that I've been cheated on twice before (in past relationships) I am very paranoid and would keep my eyes wide open if my girlfriend had many guy friends.
Let's face it.... I'm not the most handsome man in the world, and I'm not God's gift to women either, so I'd always be on the lookout (albeit in a discreet fashion) for any signs she might be going astray. And the only way I'd be 100% worry-free about her having guy friends is if I knew for a fact that they're gay--but then again, I'd be watchful to make sure they're not friends with her as a means to try to get to me though (and in case you are wondering, yes I do come from a very homophobic background).
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