maleficent

You are not your sister's keeper, and you are not to blame for her behavior. She's responsible for her choices and sounds like she's made a lot of bad ones. Hopefully, she will learn from them and not make the same mistakes again, otherwise she's going to have a long and hard road ahead of her.

She's had it easy til now, college paid for, probably an allowance, never had to work for much of anything. Wake up girlie, you blew it, you are in the real world now. Best of luck to your parents, hopefully they will not finance her immaturity.

Not sure if an ultimatum is the right way to go, either get a job and contribute or get out, cause god only knows where she'd get out too. But a serious talk with her -- letting her know what the new house rules are.

Good luck -- hopefully she'll see you as a role model and an example to follow

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