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Another option is for you to stop initiating, but somehow let her know that when she is ready to be your friend again, you'll be there for her. (Who knows, when she comes to her senses, she may think, "oh yes, Frenchie said I could count on her, and she'll call you -- ready to change and be the person she is capable of being.) In the meantime, take care of yourself and don't worry. She either will or will not wise up -- either way, it is her life to live, and you have your life to live.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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