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I agree wholeheartedly with llama8.
I've noticed that my desire to stay friends after a breakup (at least for me), is really a subconscious feeling or hope that we would one day get back together. It's extremely tempting to get back in touch with the other person before you're finally over that idea, and you realize that it's not going to work.
Feel free to take more than just a few weeks without contact with her. If you get back in touch with her prematurely, the progress you've made getting over may possibly go to waste and you might start back at ground zero.
Definitely get out, pick up a hobby that you might have given up due to the relationship, or find a new one alltogether.
I had the hardest time getting over a 2 and a half year relationship. I know what you're feeling. It sucks. But remember youwill heal with time.
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