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thespian86 · 05-10-2004, 10:58 AM

Why do things need to be so difficult?!

You're putting yourself, that lovely girl and your girlfriend in a difficult spot. I still think that your in the clear if your looking for a friend but your last few replies have become blured slightly from the original "I hope I'm not cheating" because it has now become a thread for you to seek acceptance from people so you don't have to feel guilty about what your doing. Either you love your girlfriend or you don't.

What you say makes me think either you

a) Talk to your girlfriend long and hard no matter what happens with the other girl

b) take a good long look at what your going to do to your girlfriend

C) take a good long look at yourself because what your doing isn't the best thing your ever going to do.

At first I said it was ok and I'm sure your still not looking to get laid but your looking for the wrong reasons because your are SUPPOSE TO be commited to this woman and from this it is plain to see that you are showing a lack of commitment.

05-10-2004, 10:58 AM	#40 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	Why do things need to be so difficult?! You're putting yourself, that lovely girl and your girlfriend in a difficult spot. I still think that your in the clear if your looking for a friend but your last few replies have become blured slightly from the original "I hope I'm not cheating" because it has now become a thread for you to seek acceptance from people so you don't have to feel guilty about what your doing. Either you love your girlfriend or you don't. What you say makes me think either you a) Talk to your girlfriend long and hard no matter what happens with the other girl b) take a good long look at what your going to do to your girlfriend C) take a good long look at yourself because what your doing isn't the best thing your ever going to do. At first I said it was ok and I'm sure your still not looking to get laid but your looking for the wrong reasons because your are SUPPOSE TO be commited to this woman and from this it is plain to see that you are showing a lack of commitment. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.