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1. You know your girlfriend would be angry about the situation.
2. You can't get this other girl out of your mind.
3. You're trying to come up with ways to get coffee with this girl without your girlfriend finding out.
4. You said you want to find out if there could be "something there" with this other girl.
You should just fuck her and get it over with. You're also full of it when you say that you want to ask her for coffee just so she doesn't think you're just some dirtbag. You obviously want to see if you can start something with her.
If you're really honest about taking this girl out for coffee so she doesn't think you're a jerk, then strap on your balls and tell your girlfriend this:
"I was out the other night and we ended up talking with some girls. One of them lives by me so I thought I'd be nice and save her the cab fare home and I dropped her off. I thought it would be nice to take her out for coffee. Would you mind?"
But honestly, you're as good as cheating in my book. Maybe I'm a bit harsh, but I expect honesty in relationships.
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