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Originally posted by hossified
hmmm...interesting.....and hasn't really helped me out.....
yes I would totally be doing this in a non-romantic way.....as a sort of get-to-know you basis.
yes...I would be hiding it from my gf.....and no I wouldn't tell her...
...under different circumstances..like a co-worker I don't think my gf would mind...but a girl who has the hots for me..that I met at the bar.....that's a different story.
"Maybe you should build a totaly "non-romantic" relationship with the bar girl first because you may find out its not worth it or also by buliding a friendship you will find out if it is WORTH IT" ---> I liek this idea...but how do I go abouts doing this?
..I am intrigued though.....and like I said....there is something about this girl that I can't get out of my head.....but I don't want to lead her on either??? Man why couldn't this have happend to me like 4 years ago???
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Tell your girlfriend first because if you don't tell her it will most likely screw you over someday. Don't tell her your intrested just tell her your going out for coffee with a girl you are friends with and that your not intrested in anything else. just be honest.
If you want to build a non romantic relationship with this girl, be straight up with her, tell her right now you are intrested in her and you want to get to know her much better but until that happens then you can't tell her if anythings going to happen... as in dating.
But most of all, like I said before and just like ally said, it just matters what your willing to do to the other person. Don't hurt her man cus thats the worst thing you can do.