Thats a toughy
It matters how commited you are with the relationship your in now.
But on both ends, serious or not so much... I still think it isn't cheating, as long as your going for the right reasons.
If you really like the girl your with now and you think it could be something great then don't do it... Even if you go out for coffee as friends I can garentee the girl your seeing won't like it and it will most likely hurt your relationship and her feelings.
Maybe you should build a totaly "non-romantic" relationship with the bar girl first because you may find out its not worth it or also by buliding a friendship you will find out if it is WORTH IT.
If that makes any sense to you then I hope it helps.
The moral of the story is... "If you want to get to know the girl, become friends first, don't rush into things and don't hurt the girl you KNOW ALREADY that you care about alot."
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EX: Whats new?
ME: I officially love coffee more then you now.
EX: uh...
ME: So, not much.
Last edited by thespian86; 05-10-2004 at 05:58 AM..
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