|
is this cheating????
I know alot of people have different definitions of cheating on their SO. A little background info to set-up scenario:
-been dating same girl for over 4 years....have not lived together yet but we are talking about it. See her a couple of times a week.....talk everynight on the phone.....usually go out on weekends separately (she goes with her friends...I go with mine)...and spend sunday together.
...well I went out this friday.....had a girl come up to me....very cute.....get talking and she has grad. university.....with the same degree as me.....same interests...etc..... Well she lives right by me...and instead of having her pay the 30$ cab...I drove her and her friend home....along with a buddy of mine. Well they invite us in for a bite to eat...and we all sit and chat till about 5 in the mornin. The real kicker is she really wants me bad...and is dropping every hint in the book to go look at her room with her.....but she isn't a slut nor is looking for a one nighter.....Now to my question......is it cheating if I ask this girl out for a coffee after work some night.....just as a 'follow-up' so she doesn't think I'm some dirt bag guy......and for the possibility of seeing if there is 'something' there????? I am highly against cheating and never would do so......but at the same time....I can't get this girl outta my mind.....but don't want to throw away 4 years over a 'maybe'??? What do I do??...and is this one of those 'tests' that I'm always hearing about?
Help ME!
|