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When I eat chicken tikka masala it certainly isn't as good as it was the first time, but that's food.
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mostly, thats in your attitude to the food, not the sensation you get from the food.
You're tasting just what you're expecting to taste, and not paying attention to the sensations your tongue and nose are sending.
The solution?
Look forward to eating you food, eat deliberately, with care, and really _taste_ your food as it is... fresh on your tongue.
Pay attention to what is happening now. _Now_.
Or then, rather. _THEN_.
The girlfriend?
Same solution.
Pay attention, interact and engage with her in a total way, as if its just a happy accident that you happen to know her inside out.
whether you use/have used a speculum in the course of your relationship is entirely up to yourselves.
Hang on, I'm just disappearing up my own arse.
*sssscccchhhhhplooop*