You just have to talk to girls. Be nice, treat them with respect. And I mean all girls. The ones you don't want to date, the ones you would love to date, all of them.
This will do a few things for you. One you will learn that its easy to aproach them and talk to them. The other you will make friends with these girls. The more girls you know the better your chances of dating one of them or their sister, friend, cousin, whatever.
But the number one best piece of advice I could give anyone about dating is be honest. Allways tell the women the truth about everything. This sounds obvious but guys are allways lieing to women. When a girl says "does this make my butt look fat?" Don't lie, don't be mean but don't lie either. Thats just an easy example though. I realy am talking about relationships. Before I met my wife I was dating three girls at once. It worked because I never lied about it. They all knew about each other and it was fine because the 4 of us where not looking for a serious relationship and no feelings where hurt. I met a girl while dating them told her I was dating some other people also. She didn't like it because she wanted a serious relationship. Guess what happened I wanted a relationship with her also. So I stopped sleeping with the other girls(we are still friends) and I ended up married to her. We just had our four year on 4/22.
My long winded point is if you are honest up front you will find someone that shares the same interest as you and it will work out for you in the long term.
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