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That'd require a large hook, and what body part would you suggest piercing with it? Maybe the "pierced abdomen" would be appropriate?

IMHO, the 14 yo boy is not the main issue here. The issue here is the whole fucked up familiy situation. And it's too late to fix all of that, as it's already fractured, the older brother has moved out and is presumably carrying on like his father, no matter what Luki says, and the younger brother will turn out no different, even if he is pissed at his father for being an asshole. He'll take after him just "because" and be an asshole himself later. If he survives, that is.

The place to start, IMO, is with the woman who posted here. Luki, I'm pullin' for you. I hope you do what must be done to break out of this, get some self respect, and maybe even help your younger brother do the same later.