These were my thoughts before reading the above statement by skier, which is bang on. I thought I would express them in my own words.
Women hold a power over men. They can reject or except at will the offers of men. If they ask a man out, they are giving up said power. Men then hold the power, they are the ones who now accept or reject. If a woman asked a man out, things would get blurry. She asked, does she pay? The first time? All the time? You get the picture. Have you seen 40 days and 40 nights (Dont laugh, its for a good point)? The man tries to put the power of sex (typically a woman's job) in his favor. My point is, women like to have something to hold over you, power. If they ask you out, they give up the universal power every other woman has.
Most girls do not ask guys out, however they will go to lengths to get you to ask them out. They will hug you, play with their hair, give you contact information, etc., but its up to you to make an actual move that sets up a date.
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Originally posted by qtpye4u84
I guess we girls are use to the guy just asking us because some of us don't know for sure if he likes us or not so we wait for him.
You could say stuck in the past lol.
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Like we men know all the time when girls like us. Its not easy but its expected.
