I voted relationship sex - which would be with Dei37 here since he's the only relationship guy I've had sex with.
Reason: Relationship sex has all the plusses of knowing the person's buttons, emotional attachment, freedom to take the time, the ability to GIVE more than just Take sex (if you know what I mean). The only plus from one night stand type is newness and excitement from taking a chance. With hubby we spice things up in many ways. That's not just counting swinging. When you make the effort to make sex new and exciting with someone you already know it's the best sex there is, I think.
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