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zaiaz · 04-21-2004, 12:02 PM

tim2 i know how you feel, the very first time my SO's son called me Dad i didn't know how to respond. Now almost 4 years later it is so natural. My SO has 4 children 3 sons and a daughter ages: 18, 13, 6 and a 5 yr old. I have 2 children 18 and 13 a son and daughter. When my children first heard my SO's children call me dad they didn't want to accept it, but i sat them all down and told I them, yes told them,I did not ask them, or discuss it with them. I treat them all as if they are my own children. I have to live my life the way I(we SO & me) want to and not they way they want me to. As far a the jealousy, that's life it's gonna happen no matter what just treat each one fair and even and they will love you.

04-21-2004, 12:02 PM	#5 (permalink)
zaiaz Psycho Location: State of confusion...wait that's medication.	tim2 i know how you feel, the very first time my SO's son called me Dad i didn't know how to respond. Now almost 4 years later it is so natural. My SO has 4 children 3 sons and a daughter ages: 18, 13, 6 and a 5 yr old. I have 2 children 18 and 13 a son and daughter. When my children first heard my SO's children call me dad they didn't want to accept it, but i sat them all down and told I them, yes told them,I did not ask them, or discuss it with them. I treat them all as if they are my own children. I have to live my life the way I(we SO & me) want to and not they way they want me to. As far a the jealousy, that's life it's gonna happen no matter what just treat each one fair and even and they will love you. __________________ Self destruction - "Its my Nature", said the Scorpion... Last edited by zaiaz; 04-21-2004 at 12:05 PM..