Hossified makes a point about looking at the progression of a persons appearance. We all know as we age we will lose our outer trappings of beauty. We go bald, wrinkles appear, things sag, hair grows in the craziest places, we expect it. Because of this advance knowledge it seems one should enjoy the benefits of good health and physical appearance while we can. Plus the better shape we are in the better we will age. If Hossified has a dilema with his girfriends physical appearance now, he will really be in trouble should it start to get worse which without some sort of effort it inevitably will. Of course Hossified, if you want "the whole package" your're gonna have to bring something to the table, like maybe being a bit more romantic and "gushy". If in the end you can't give her the attention she wants and she can't live up to your physical expectations you might have to kindly move on. It sounds like you guys have a lot of time invested though so I'm sure with a little compromise and time it will all work out.
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