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Originally posted by jazz
Do you love the person you are having sex with..or even like them a lot? Are you in a relationship with them? Feelings of guilt could be coming from you just having sex because it feels good at the time, but when all is said and done there are no emotions involved in it.
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I am no longer in that relationship(it's actually been awhile) but this is stopping me from doing things currently and possibly in the future. I did love the man(The man I was with).
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Originally posted by jazz
I have a friend who has sex whenever her boyfriend wants even though she doesn't want to. She gives in and feels miserable afterwards because none of her needs emotionally were met. She just wants make sure he is satisfied.
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I think you may be onto something here, I had never thought about it that way. Now that I look back at the relationship I was in, when having sex, I think you may be onto something