Listen to Skysooner man, for sure.
Though I do have to add that even if she does loose weight she won't be so "carefree" as you think she'll be. I was quite heavy @ 175 for a few years, and here I am at 135 and I worry about weight. Not worry in the sense that I don't eat - but I watch what I eat VERY closely and I'm very concensious of my weight. It's not a matter of getting the weight off it's the work to KEEP it off that people don't realize. I'm not as carefree as I used to be. I haven't eaten red meat in 7 years, and I haven't eaten fastfood in almost 4! This is a huge lifestyle change. Yes, I'm happier that I weigh less now but that doesn't mean that I'm going to stuff bad food in my face. Along with the weight gain self confidence issues are going to be something big. Even if she loses weight she still will be insecure about how she looks, she may get over it, but there are some people that don't.
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