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Originally posted by hossified
..see that response scares the crap outta me!! I wouldn't do it in a hurtful way...I'm a big believer in the honest approach but I know that woman are very sensitive with certain subjects. It doesn't make me a bad person to want her to be thinner does it? I mean it will improve her own self esteem etc... Yes I love her, but if she doesn't love herself...than how is she supposed to truly love someone else?
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That's the thing. A lot of it depends on how you say it to her. If you tell her you're worried about how she feels about herself, and let her know that you love her, then she shouldn't get that upset. I mean, yeah. She'll probably cry, and be upset for a bit, but if you let her know that YOU love her no matter what, then she should realize that you ARE worried about her.
I agree with your comment that she needs to love herself before she can truly wholly love anyone else.