I'm not sure how affective this will be or not, but don't put so much emphasis on it, and you'll want it more. I went through a period like that when I first moved up to Salt Lake, and I just rode it out. Now the sex life is great. Another thing I've heard is that when it comes to women, sex can become some sort of a habit and when you dont have sex for a while, you're not going to miss it. Men on the other hand get irritable and tend to miss sex more the less they get it. Try just foreplay with your boyfriend, and have him leave you wanting more. I think that would work for ya. Let us know how it goes
