Fallenangel, I could not have said it any better.
I went a year and a half without sex, and while I did get cranky at times. After taking matters in my own hands, the crankiness usually went away, but that didn't take care of everything. What I was really missing was the intimacy and physical contact. If I've got someone to cuddle with, I'm happy. For me, sex is a bonus, not a necessity.
I love making love, and I hate meaningless sex. As a friend of a friend once put it, "having sex with someone you don't love is like jacking off with a different hip movement." That pretty much sums it up for me.
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I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.
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