Thanks for the advice/encouragement yall
As far as unzipping his pants and just going at it, that'll be a bit difficult as he's about 2,000 miles away
I figure I'll talk to him. I'm 98.2% sure he'll go the whole "lets remain friends" route which is fine. It'll be good to have the door closed.
Of course my internet is down at my house (Screw you Time Warner) so that won't be fixed until Thursday. Got some waiting to do!