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There's this girl I've been hanging out with for about a month, but all we were doing was hanging out. I think she's a cutie, but her body language was always kinda defensive, even though we were spending hours at a time together every weekend, just the two of us. There was never a good opportunity for me to make a move, so I asked her what was going on. Her actions were saying she was interested in me, but her body language said she just wanted to be friends.
So I talked to her about it, and I found out that she was still in the "getting to know you stage" and was probably just kinda shy about it. So I let her get to know me--we exhanged a series of questions about our backgrounds, and I guess this made her feel more comfortable, but she surprised me at the end of the night by asking me to kiss her before she got in her car. Hot smooching ensued. We went out the next night, actually, and smooched at the end of that night, too.
The moral of the story is that sometimes you have to do some nudging in order to make headway.
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