well, i guess it's more a question of whether you're actively hiding it or not. I agree with ratbastid, sexuality is a huge part of your being, but it shouldn't need to weigh in all the time, it shouldn't matter, in terms of acceptance.
If you feel you are actively hiding your sexuality, perhaps it would be best to stop. this doesn't mean coming out and telling everyone, and proclaiming it loud and proud. in fact, don't, it seems self-defeating in a way. but, if someone approaches you and asks, there's no reason to lie about it. If this is what you're already doing...well..uh..keep on....boy, that lost its eloquence real quick
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If you could really get to know someone and know that they weren't lying to you, then you would know the world was real. Because you could agree on things, you could compare notes. That must be why people get married or make Art. So they'll be able to really know something and not go insane.
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