Quote:
Originally posted by BooRadley
Lets boil this down in LT terms :
Strange. You wait, and girls approach you? You must be far above average looking, as this doesn't tend to happen to average or lower looking guys.
|
Are you trying to sound so incredulous?
I'm not any more attractive than anybody else. In fact, i think that i am probably less attractive than a lot of people. I don't really work out, i've got a little belly going on.
Perhaps i've been lucky in that lately i've been surrounded by women whom i both respect and find attractive. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that i don't try to meet girls at clubs. I have other social networks that don't involve alcohol, or shallow people dressed to impress(your average clubgoer). I have interests outside drinking and mating, which is another way of saying i go places where i expect to meet like minded people. Which brings up another idea, perhaps you go places where you expect to meet like minded people too. Taking into account the fact that you seem to completely embrace ladder theory it should be no surprise to you if you only meet women who think exactly like you expect them to. I also try to meet women when they are sober because you're average drunk person acts like a child. I also don't hang around with women i don't respect.
Quote:
|
If you are still meeting interested women without trying, then you are luckier than a majority of men. That is probably why you cannot relate to the ladder theory. This advice does not help someone who has trouble with women.
|
It's not a matter of luck, luck is for people who lack proper insight into the way certain mechanisms work. It's a matter of faith. Not christian faith, but the faith that you have in yourself that you don't need have a woman by your side all of the time. As soon as you realize that getting your dick wet shouldn't be a high priority it ceases to become a high priority. You then free yourself from any leverage any woman may have over you. The reason "nice guys" are chumps is that they don't respect themselves enough to chase women who respect them. They're only looking for someone with a vagina, everything else is just a detail. With standards like that, no wonder they get fucked over by women. LT does nothing to help this.