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Originally posted by filtherton
The philosophy(if you could call it that) that has worked best for me when it comes to meeting ladies is to not try to meet ladies. It's not that important to me. I try to be up front about who i am and what i stand for and i leave it at that. You can't look for a good woman, you have to let one find you. Then you have to see her for what she is and do what you have to do to make a connection with her. Above all, you can't compromise on who you are and what you stand for. If you don't know who you are and what you stand for than you have no business being in a serious, committed relationship. If you can't be happy and comfortable while you're single than your never going to be really happy and comfortable in a relationship.
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Lets boil this down in LT terms :
Strange. You wait, and girls approach you? You must be far above average looking, as this doesn't tend to happen to average or lower looking guys.
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The philosophy(if you could call it that) that has worked best for me when it comes to meeting ladies is to not try to meet ladies.
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If you are still meeting interested women without trying, then you are luckier than a majority of men. That is probably why you cannot relate to the ladder theory. This advice does not help someone who has trouble with women.