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Raeanna74 and I are swingers as well, so we completely understand what you mean, and know the situations you can find yourself in. We keep it to ourselves. Coworkers don't know, family doesn't know (save for her brother and his wife, who's already bi), and the friends that know, we play with. It is most likely in your best interest to keep it quiet. This lifestyle is NOT looked upon in a favorable light by the general population.
Heather & I think that more couples would benefit, but that's personal opinion. You'll do better the fewer people that know about it. The ones that already do need to be sworn to secrecy. You'll also need to develp little "stories" about where you are, and how do you know these people? We've run in to that, so just a little heads up, especially if you start seeing any other people in addition to the couple you're already playing with.
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