As a woman I love men. I will always love men but I enjoy women too. I have discovered that "experimenting" in that realm teaches me about myself and more about how to GIVE in sexual relations. The giving pleases me and is an important part. You friend sounds like he would be patient with anything you are comfortable with. I would try it out. See what it's like and enjoy yourself. Do only what you are comfortable with but push your limits. You might learn something about yourself. Your friendship with this friend may become more open too - not necessarily sexually but in our swinging relationships we have made some close friendships that have been important to us. The type of friendships we have seem stronger to us and even more valuable because we know our swinger friends have seen all our flaws and shortcomings and still accept us as we are. There isn't always pressure to do anythign sexually but there is an understanding.
I wish you good luck and hope you have a great time.
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