The best thing you can do is be honest. Talk to her. I spent so much time invested in my relationship trying to get my guy to open up to me. I knew what he was thinking and feeling most of the time but i got sick of analyzing. If you are open with your girlfriend ** then she'll appreciate that and it might make it easier. Just let her know that as much as you care for her, you don't want to get into this if you can't give her what you think she deserves.
** Do not be honest to the point of stupidity (something my dad always told me... i'm only beginning to see the truth in that now)
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