KnifeMissile, it sounds like you might want to take a look at your follow-up strategy. Are you asking for a second date too soon, like only a few days later? Or two weeks later? Timing is important. Also, if you find yourself getting frustrated, you can always just go to a bar and try your hand at a one-night stand. Sure, you might get rejected, but if and when you click, it's a great confidence boost, and the ladies love confidence. Lastly, don't talk too much about yourself or your past on a first date--it can turn people off. You'll want to steer more towards current events, likes and dislikes, music, movies, etc.
Just keep at it, it'll get better.
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