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Communicate. Talk to each other about sex. Get to the root of why you are bored...
Discuss your fantasies, discuss you current limits, discuss why you have those limits...
Talk to each other and get to know what makes the other tick.
Then act on it.
One thing I did for my wife. I created a number of cards with various fantasies and activities I'd like to do or have done (everything from sex around the house and random blow jobs to anal sex and mutual cross dressing).
She had problems coming up with things to do and was shy about initiating things... When she wants to do something a little different she now randomly pulls a card and surprises me with it... It took the pressure off her to be creative and "guess" what I wanted.
This worked like a charm for her. It may not for you.
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- Old Man Luedecke
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