play dress-up, first in the home, then actual go somewhere public..wearing the chosen outfit stuff.
by this i mean, have your wife choose anything(for you)-whether, a pimp, x-dressing, a leather boy, a plummer whatever...for you and you become that person she wants you to be..
mind you you can do it one at a time, out both at the same time..kinda like Halloween except more seriously and with a adult mind set.
like wise you do the same for her, a dolly, princess, provocative things, a sexy secrestary...
Its about trust, lust, and fantasy...this stuff works for us big time.
except we also live our outfits when not doing the vanilla lifestyle thing.
GOOD LUCK, its a blast, and you never know...even after ten year.
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LEATHER, LATEX and LACE "SSC"
"Nothing That Gives Pleasure is Bad"
Quality is for those who know
what they want and are at peace with what they have.
"S/M is about emotion; the erotic tension between my impulse toward something and my resistance against it."-- Virginia Barker
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