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I personally find your actions to be selfish and you should've thought about things before you began your affair. You don't seem to be thinking of your future much with this affair, and how exactly is your daughter going to grow up? My mom used to tell me some pretty nasty things about my dad and vice versa, my parents devorced when I was 8. You'd be amazed the horrific things one parent will tell a child. Do you really want your daughter to look at you as a man who would be irresponsible and have an affair? I think you should stop the affair first of all, then talk to a lawyer, and sit down with your wife, tell her that it's not working for you, apologize, maybe tell her about the affair(depending on probable reaction, sometimes people shouldn't know for their own well-being). Tell her you want to end the marraige, but it's not fair to her and especially not fair to your daughter to drag this on. Try to retain a friendship with your wife, it seems that would be best. And if you really want to start a new relationship, go and look for someone with some intellegence, and morals....
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