Mypro,
Definitely stay with the wife. Divorce is AWFUL, Financially ruinous, and really bad for your child. If none of the other reasons work for you, please stay for your child.
My experience is that most women will be more open to fun sex, and more intense sex, when they feel comfortable. You can only try to be more the suitor that you were before you married her.
I've also learned that some people think about the negatives (you) and others are oriented to think on the positives. You must change your thought patterns to the positives about your wife. She will then notice your new attitude and feel more appreciated. Her responses will make your attitude work worth while.
So court the wife. Commit the hot number to memory, and dump her quietly. Don't confess to the wife if you don't have to. If you do, say you did have a flirtation, but then came to your senses. Confessing to infidelity can only hurt your wife. Winning her heart is your goal, not hurting her.
Good luck.
And love your daughter, like the best father you can be.
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Trueheart
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