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Originally posted by teseniarkc
Being shy I know that if someone is to make the first approach it makes things easier for me. You should make the first move and see were it goes.
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I'm the exact same way. And what sucks is that I'm one of these people who don't come off as shy to girls so they expect me to be all courageous and come up to them when I just find it so difficult for whatever reason sometimes.
It would totally turn me and get my intention if a girl who I was in to came up to me and started talking to me out of nowhere. It would take so much stress off of my shoulders. It's hard being a guy sometimes man! LoL we always gotta be the ones to make the first move; ladies it's 2004 hahaha, make the first move sometimes! hehe. And like someone else said, we're still guys, we just sometimes can't express how we feel.
My problem is also that once I do get "in" with a girl I'm interested in, I don't know how to not make it end up as a "just friends" thing. It seems to happen more and more often; I think I just need to looks this flying V between my legs and let my balls drop. hah. But yeah on the real, confidence really does get girls because I mean I've seen some ugly dudes get FINE girls just because they have tons of confidence.
But anyways, back on topic, yeah if you like the guy I say go for it! Don't wait on him because he probably is really attracted to you but thinks that you'd never go for him. That's what us shy guys do; we try to convince ourselves that we can't get certain girls... it sucks. So yeah, GO FOR IT!