Can't help you on the hotness sensation. Just make sure you're properly lubed up and ready to go (sufficiently turned on).
As for the need-to-defecate feeling, that is natural. The purpose of your rectum is to detect when there is feces waiting to be expelled. Any object inserted anally will ultimately end up in this detection region. When your rectum senses an object there, it sends signals to the brain that it needs to be expelled. So if you stick an anal plug or finger up there, your brain is going to say "I need to poop." When you take out the plug or finger, and try to go to the bathroom, nothing comes out because you've already taken out the object that was tricking your brain into thinking it needs to poop.
If you masturbate while getting accustomed to an object that has been inserted, it will help you distract yourself from the feeling of needing to poop. Also, once motion sets in, and if at the proper angle, it will massage your vagina in a totally new way that you've never experienced before. Since the anus and rectum have as many nerve endings as a vagina, you'll probably be too busy working on an orgasm to notice your brain telling you to go to the bathroom.
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