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Old 03-20-2004, 09:31 AM   #7 (permalink)
2kids1headache
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Exercise can also help with sex drive, but if you've lost that much weight it sounds like you're exercising plenty already. I hope.

Sometimes people just go through a phase where they're not very interested. I've been there, and I notice that other people have talked about similar times in other threads. Worry and pressure aren't going to help. Time, relaxation, and "no pressure" opportunities will eventually find you getting back on the horse.

If you're REALLY worried about your boyfriend, and I mean really worried, then you could always think about simply giving in some time when he's interested. It might help you remember why you were interested in the first place. (That's going to sound like bad advice to some, but I'm trusting you to realize that if you're going to resent him for the pressure and your giving in to it, you shouldn't give in.)

Good luck. I hope your tide turns soon.
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