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Originally posted by ariekitten
so i tried anal for the first time, and one weird thing i noticed is that my ass felt as if it were really REALLY hot on the inside......but only when something was inserted. also it felt like i had to "go" each time anything was inserted, but when i tried to go to the bathroom, i couldn't "go". anyone else experienced this or maybe have any suggestions/comments on why this is and how i can get around it? i enjoyed it but just couldn't keep going because of the combined hotness and need to defecate. so thanks!
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Given that I've never been on the receiving end of anal sex I can't tell you from first-hand experience what will or will not work to make the whole anal sex thing better for you, but my guess is that you felt the hotness inside probably because your rectal tissue is very sensitive to the lubrication your lover used on you.
As for the perceived need to defecate that was probably a reflex reaction from having an object being inserted into your rectum rather than just expelled.
Your nervous system reacted automatically and assumed you needed to defecate because it was your first time having anal sex and your body didn't have any other frame of reference to deal with this situation except to assume that you had a need to defecate.
In the future make sure you and your lover have plenty of foreplay beforehand, and also, make sure your clitoris is being stimultated as he penetrates you anally. Not only might that reduce that feeling of your needing to defecate, but you might actually get an orgasm out of anal sex.